me, you, him, her, us, them
The rule
English uses a different word when the person is on the RECEIVING end of the verb. I help him — he helps me. The pairs are I/me, he/him, she/her, we/us, they/them; you and it never change. The same word is used after a preposition: with me, for her, to them.
I → me · he → him · she → her · we → us · they → them
Examples
Can you help me, please?
Please call me tomorrow.
Give me a minute, please.
Can you send me the address?
Common mistakes
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Wrong: Can you help I?
Right: Can you help me?
After the verb, I becomes me.
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Wrong: Come with I
Right: Come with me
After a preposition too: with me, not with I.
Practice questions
Try each one yourself first, then open “Show answer” for the solution and the reason.
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1Fill in the gap.
Can you help _____, please?
- I
- me
- mine
- my
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Answer: B Can you help me, please?
You are receiving the help → me.
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2Fill in the gap.
My brother is here. Can you call _____?
- his
- them
- him
- he
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Answer: C My brother is here. Can you call him?
A man receiving → him.
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3Fill in the gap.
Sara is waiting. Please tell _____ I am late.
- she
- hers
- him
- her
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Answer: D Sara is waiting. Please tell her I am late.
A woman receiving → her.
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4Fill in the gap.
My neighbours are nice. I often help _____.
- them
- their
- us
- they
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Answer: A My neighbours are nice. I often help them.
More than one receiving → them.
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5Choose the correct sentence.
- Can you come with I?
- Can you come with me?
- Can you come with my?
- Can you come with mine?
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Answer: B Can you come with me?
After with, the word is me.
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6Choose the correct sentence.
- I send a message my sister every day.
- I send she a message every day.
- I send to my sister a message every day.
- I send my sister a message every day.
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Answer: D I send my sister a message every day.
Both a receiver and a thing can follow: tell + person + thing.
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7Put the words in the right order.
Please call me tomorrow
Show answer
Answer: Please call me tomorrow.
Verb, then the person receiving.
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8Put the words in the right order.
Can you send me the address
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Answer: Can you send me the address?
me comes before the thing.
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9This sentence is wrong. Choose the fix.
Which sentence is wrong?
- Can you help us with this form?
- Can you help them with this form?
- Can you help me with this form?
- Can you help I with this form?
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Answer: D Can you help I with this form?
After the verb it must be me.
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10Fill in the gap.
The doctor can see _____ at four. (speaking to a patient)
- yours
- thee
- you
- your
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Answer: C The doctor can see you at four. (speaking to a patient)
Speaking to the person → you, which never changes.
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